Decades of sparring in martial arts has taught me that it’s not the punch that gets through that’s the problem, it’s how you attach to that punch getting through on the ‘inside’ that causes the problems.
Nothing annoys me more than ‘The Secret’ type mentality. The whole idea that all you have to do is think it, believe it, and it will manifest. I am not sure if you have noticed, but this is the wrong universe for this kind of belief system.
No one is perfect. No one gets everything right all of the time (probably mostly not). Everyone messes up. Just because you see someone who is successful, doesn’t mean they never failed. They probably failed more than you, because they were willing to risk it.